Bagaimana Mencintai Wanita? (Ala Lagu)

To really love a woman,To understand her,You've got to know her deep inside ...
Hear every thought,See every dream,And give her wings when she wants to fly.
Then when you find yourself lying helpless in her arms ...
You know you really love a woman
When you love a woman,You tell her that she's really wanted.
When you love a woman,You tell her that she's the one.
She needs somebody, to tell her that it's gonna last forever.
So tell me have you ever really ... really, really ever loved a woman?

To really love a woman, Let her hold you,Till you know how she needs to be touched.
You've got to breathe her, really taste her,Till you can feel her in your blood.
And when you see your unborn children in her eyes ...You know you really love a woman.
When you love a woman,You tell her that she's really wanted.
When you love a woman,You tell her that she's the one.
She needs somebody, to tell her that it's gonna last forever.
So tell me have you ever really ... really, really ever loved a woman?

You've got to give her some faith,Hold her tight, a little tenderness.
You've got to treat her right. She will be there for you taking good care of you ...
You really gotta love your woman.
And when you find yourself lying helpless in her arms,You know you really love a woman.
When you love a woman,You tell her that she's really wanted.
When you love a woman,You tell her that she's the one.
She needs somebody, to tell her that it's gonna last forever.
So tell me have you ever really ... really, really ever loved a woman?
So tell me have you ever really ... really, really ever loved a woman?
So tell me have you ever really ... really, really ever loved a woman?

*a song by Bryan Adams

Yup, aku lagi dengerin lagu-lagunya Bryan Adams sembari merekam surat masuk, pekerjaan rutinku sehari-hari di kantor. Dan sampailah giliran lagu Have You Ever Really Love A Woman, membuatku menghentikan ketukan jemariku pada keyboards sejenak untuk menyimak liriknya. Baiklah, ini lagu untuk menyarankan pria nggombal memang hehe, tapi memang begitulah kurang lebih seharusnya seorang pria memperlakukan wanita. Lebih tepatnya, seorang suami memperlakukan istrinya.

Wanita makhluk yang lembut, ya tho, meski ia bukan lelembut *hiiyy*  Wanita itu perasaannya halus gitu lhoo, tapi awas jangan dibilang makhluk halus ya! *jitak. Wanita mudah sekali termehek-mehek, suka banget digombali (nah lo!) makanya banyak yang kena korban para PHP yang merajalela di mana-mana ckck. Kalau digombali sama suami mah ga apa-apa yaak, suami mah kudu bin wajiib ngegombal. Ga tiap hari ga apa-apa deh, asal istri diberi dosis vitamin gombalisasi meski sedikit *maksa :D

When you love a woman,You tell her that she's really wanted.
When you love a woman,You tell her that she's the one.
She needs somebody, to tell her that it's gonna last forever.

Yeah, setujuu sama katanya om Brian, wanita suka merasa diinginkan, maunya hanya jadi satu-satunya, ga mau dimadu hoho. Menua bersama? It's so romantic hahaayy.

You've got to give her some faith,Hold her tight, a little tenderness.
You've got to treat her right. She will be there for you taking good care of you ...
You really gotta love your woman.

Inget kan gimana perlakuan Rasulullah kepada para istrinya, lembut booo. Tegas tapi ga kasar, ga songong, ga semena-mena. Kalau suami bisa benar dalam memperlakukan istrinya, insyaAllah istri akan benar-benar tulus ikhlas berbakti pada suami, ciyus! *ketularanalay :p
Baiklah, memang tidak hanya suami yang harus berlaku baik pada istri, pun sebaliknya. Jadi sama-sama berusaha, sama-sama menjaga komitmen dalam pernikahan, sama-sama menjaga kesuburan cinta agar tidak mudah layu terkena musim pancaroba yang akhir-akhir ini selalu melanda. Anak-anak saja sampai sering sakit-sakitan lho sekarang kena batuk pilek berkali-kali. Eh, jadi ngelantur hihihi. Pokoknya gitu deh. Jaga kesehatan yak, semuanya ^_^